The Egalitarian Delight-Maker

8457736952_f723f38792_zWhen famed anthropologist Margaret Mead first visited Samoa in the South Pacific, it led her to write in the preface of her book Coming of Age in Samoa, “Courtesy, modesty, good manners, conformity to definite ethical standards are universal… It is instructive to know that standards differ in the most unexpected ways.” Her non-judgmental approach to the target of her research enabled her to gain a level of intimacy with Samoan inhabitants that few researchers had been able to attain.

Customer service is anthropological. As customers we all look for symbols, artifacts, language, and customs to signal trust and the potential for a happy ending. Doctors display credentials, banks parade the iron door of the safe, airline pilots sound safety conscious, and hospitals are spotless. We respond to cues that tell our subconscious where to go, what to like, and what to avoid. We have learned the meaning of caution lights, shaking heads, yellow tape, church bells, furrowed eyes, electrical smells, and dashboard icons.

There are many components in the social encounter we call service. As service providers, it is vital we remain vigilent and astute at learning the cues and customs to be embedded in our customers’ experiences? We are effective if we take the Mead approach—non-judgmental recognition that customer “standards differ in the most unexpected ways.” Woe to the service provider that assumes, guesses or stereotypes.

Everyone loves a pleasant, unexpected surprise. We are all the same in our preference for service with delight versus service with disdain or indifference. My three granddaughters, like customers, all love sprinkles. But, Kaylee likes chocolate sprinkles with the same passion that Cassie enjoys rainbow sprinkles. And, Annabeth just might mix all types of sprinkles together just to see how it looks on top of a cupcake or cookie.

The quest of innovative service is to provide a value-unique experience, not just a value-added one. But, what one customer views as valuable may be viewed by another as just ho-hum. My business partner enjoys surprises with an edge; something clever, even if it is not particularly warm. It makes him laugh. I gravitate toward surprises that are laced in sincerity and kindness, something that makes me swoon like a kid with a new puppy. Choosing your version of surprise starts with understanding your customers and learning what will touch their hearts in the most unexpected ways.

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  1. Chip, I thoroughly enjoyed this post! I am in the midst of a customer service “challenge” with our internet provider and each interaction leads me to think how much more progress we would make if they were attuned to any of my cues. On the plus side, I sent you an email of a cool “Bell” related sign I saw here in Tallahassee recently!

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Dr. Chip R. Bell is a world-renowned authority on customer loyalty and innovative service. Global Gurus ranked him in 2018 the #2 keynote speaker in the world on customer service; #1 in North America. He also is the author of numerous national and international best-selling books including Take Their Breath Away, Managing Knock Your Socks off Service, Magnetic Service, The 9½ Principles of Innovative Service and Customers as Partners. His books have been translated into over a dozen languages.

His newest customer service book is the award-winning, best-selling book Kaleidoscope: Delivering Innovative Service That Sparkles.

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